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    I’m nervous about starting therapy. Is that normal?

    Therapy can be vulnerable and new, so it’s natural to be nervous. It can be difficult to imagine the words around what you are feeling. Maybe you’ve experienced feeling tongue-tied when trying to open up to friends or loved ones in the past. The fear around that can feel overwhelming. It takes courage to start going to therapy. The fact that you are on this website, looking for help, and reading this right now shows that you are being brave and seeking help.

    Therapy is a space where you can be yourself and come just as you are, including feeling nervous. I’m committed to finding a way to care for your nervousness and ensure sessions are as comfortable as possible.

    I’m here if you want to talk about it during a free phone consultation.

    How do I know if you are the right therapist for me?

    Take your time to read through my website. If you sense that I may be a good fit based on what you are reading, you can Email me.

    during a free phone consultation, you can ask me questions about my approach, ask how I work as a therapist, or any other questions you may have that are specific-to-you. You’ll also be able to share what’s going on for you and we can determine how I could best be of service to you.

    It may be helpful to think of the first few sessions as trying out the waters together. During the sessions, you’ll be able to see how you feel working with me. My approach is not going to work for everyone. What’s most important to me is that you find someone who you feel is the right fit for you. We can explore that together.

    What if I don’t want to talk about something?

    It’s natural to not want to share some of the painful or difficult things we’ve been through.. During our sessions, it will always be up to you if you feel ready to talk about something or not. It’s my job to give you space to slowly start to work through the tough stuff. Gradually and at a pace that feels comfortable to you, you can share what you feel ready to share

    You can also share with me that you are nervous to open up about something and we can talk about that too. Whatever is present for you. Whatever you are going through. Bring that to session and we can explore that together.

    I’m scared that if I open up, you will think I’m crazy.

    If you open up to me, I will not think you are crazy, I will think you are courageous and human. Many of my clients have had the same fear (that people would think they are crazy).

    Through my own life journey and working with my clients, I know how ‘normal’ your experience is.

    You have nothing to be ashamed about. Nothing you can say will cause me to judge you.

    I know nobody’s perfect, we all struggle, we are humans trying to human.

    Whatever it is you’re going through, I provide a safe space where you can feel heard and supported without judgement

    Does what we talk about in therapy remain confidential?

    You might already know that you want to share sensitive information about your loved ones with me and you don’t want them to find out what you’ve said. So I want you to know that unless there is an imminent danger to yourself or someone else, everything you share with me is completely confidential

    Your privacy and trust are of utmost importance.

    You can rest assured that you can talk about anything without fear of that information getting out.

    If you have specific questions about how confidentiality works, you can ask during your during a free phone consultation or anytime during our work together.

    How long will therapy take?

    You might be asking about how long therapy will take because you are currently struggling and want relief fast.

    If this is true for you, I want you to know that on average, my new clients start seeing positive effects after the first a few sessions.

    By that point, they feel a little more calm and hopeful that healing is possible

    The total duration of therapy varies from client to client. Some of my clients find 6-12 weeks to be enough to resolve immediate challenges. While other clients feel more supported by longer-term therapy.

    We will work together to find the length of time that works for you.

    What can I expect during the first session?

    Overall, you can think of the first session as a free-flowing conversation through which we start getting to know each other. I’ll invite you to share more about yourself and we can also talk about what’s worked or not worked for your mental health in the past.

    Some questions that I like to ask during a first session include:

    What brought you to therapy?

    Have you gone to therapy before? How did that go?

    What do I need to know about you to understand your current challenges?

    You can ask me questions as well. You might be curious about about why I’m a therapist or how I’ve helped other clients like you.

    The most important part of a first session is that you see if you feel I’m a good fit for you. If you feel supported, seen, and at-ease with me, we can discuss if you’d like to meet again.

    How can I get started?

    I’m here to talk during a free phone consultation where you can share what’s going on for you and we can determine how I could best be of service to you.

    Email me today to get your free phone consultation at [email protected].