Anxiety Therapy for Women in Midlife

You don’t have to carry it all alone


 

Does it feel like the uncertainty of everything is making life unmanageable?

You feel like you are at the edge of a cliff and the slightest wind could push you over the edge.

Let me help you get off of the edge.

You don’t have to carry it all alone.

You’ve been juggling so much for so long that you barely notice the weight anymore—until something cracks.
A quiet moment.
A sleepless night.
A question you can’t answer: What do I actually want?

Anxiety in midlife doesn’t always look like panic—it looks like staying up late replaying conversations.
It looks like snapping at your partner, then spiraling with guilt.
It looks like constantly wondering if you’re doing enough, or if you missed your window to feel truly fulfilled.

You’ve checked so many boxes—career, family, caregiving—but inside, something feels off.
There’s a constant hum of urgency, a loop of what-ifs and should-haves, and a sharp pang of doubt that maybe you got parts of your life “wrong.”

This kind of anxiety is quiet but relentless.
And it’s not just in your head.

 

Life can feel different than the way it does today.

It’s your body’s response to a life of overfunctioning

Anxiety often shows up in women who’ve spent decades holding things together for everyone else—nurturing, managing, pushing through.

But eventually, your body and nervous system start signaling: something isn’t working.

  • Your mind races, but your motivation lags

  • You’re exhausted, but rest doesn’t come easy

  • You crave connection, but don’t always feel seen

  • You fear change, but the way things are isn’t sustainable

There’s a grief here, too—around time lost to self-doubt, dreams deferred, and the pressure to be everything to everyone.

You are not dramatic. You are not broken. You are waking up to what’s been buried beneath the busyness.

What we’ll work on:

  • Improve coping skills

  • Retrain your brain

  • Set better boundaries

  • Cultivate more calm and peace

 You Don’t Have to Think Your Way Out of This

You’ve probably tried.
The podcasts. The journaling. The deep breaths. Maybe even therapy before.

And still—something in you stays stuck.

That’s because this isn’t just a mindset problem.
Anxiety lives in the body, in the parts of you that learned long ago it wasn’t safe to slow down, say no, or ask for more.

In our work together, we’ll listen to those parts. Gently. Respectfully. Without rushing to fix.

I offer:

  • Somatic therapy – to help your body find safety and settle

  • Parts work (IFS-inspired) – to bring compassion to the inner voices driving perfectionism, shame, or fear

  • Relational healing – because anxiety often begins in relationships, and it can soften in relationship too

Therapy Can Help You:

  • Quiet the inner critic and stop overidentifying with fear

  • Move out of autopilot and into alignment

  • Rebuild self-trust and deepen your intuition

  • Create space for your own wants—not just everyone else’s needs

  • Feel more connected to yourself, your body, and your life

 You’re Not Too Much. You’re Not Too Late.

This season of life is not the end—it’s a threshold.

If you’re feeling anxious, uncertain, or like something inside you is asking to be heard, you’re not alone.
There’s nothing wrong with you. There’s wisdom in this discomfort.

You're allowed to loosen the grip.
You’re allowed to grieve what didn’t happen.
And you’re allowed to begin again—more rooted in who you really are.

FAQS

What others have wondered about anxiety therapy

 
  • Anxiety in midlife often shows up as overthinking, chronic self-doubt, trouble sleeping, irritability, or a sense of emotional numbness. It can look like perfectionism, people-pleasing, or a constant need to "figure it all out." You may be functioning on the outside—but feel like you're barely holding it together inside.

  • Absolutely. Anxiety isn’t always loud or obvious. In midlife, it often shows up as overthinking, chronic tension, a constant sense of urgency, or a low-level hum of dread. It can feel like never quite relaxing, always questioning yourself, or feeling like you're living your life on autopilot.

  • Midlife is a natural turning point. The roles you’ve played—mother, partner, caretaker, professional—may be shifting. You might be questioning past decisions or feeling the weight of time. Anxiety often rises during transitions like these because old coping strategies stop working, and your nervous system is signaling it’s time for something new.

  • You may have gained insight, but insight alone doesn’t always create lasting change. That’s where somatic and parts-based work can help—by reaching the deeper layers of your nervous system and your unconscious protective patterns. We work not just with thoughts, but with the parts of you that learned to survive through overachievement, self-doubt, or caretaking.

  • I offer a trauma-informed, somatic approach that honors all of you—not just your mind. Together, we’ll gently explore what your anxiety is trying to protect. Instead of trying to “fix” you, we’ll create space for self-trust, curiosity, and healing. You’ll learn tools that work with your body and emotions—not against them.

  • Yes. While therapy may inspire some shifts, healing doesn’t require a total life overhaul. Often, the biggest changes happen internally: in how you relate to yourself, in what you allow, in how you soothe your system. These shifts ripple outward in ways that feel empowering—not overwhelming.

More questions? Check out my FAQs page.

Break through the clutter of your mind to get the life you desire!